90 Day Fiancé: Why Sojaboy Usman’s Ex-Wife Lisa Is Kept A Secret On B90

Usman and Kim were included in the fifth season of the show 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Fans are curious as to why his ex-wife Lisa was not mentioned anywhere in the story.

Fans of “90 Day Fiancé” are perplexed as to why ex-wife Lisa “Babygirl” Hamme is being removed from the show before it delves further into Usman Umar AKA Sojaboy’s connection with possible fiancée Kim. 

Even though Kimberly has shown her faithfulness in a number of different ways, Usman, who is now 50 years old, is not yet convinced that the 50-year-old woman is qualified to take the place of his first wife.

Kim has made it clear that she has no problem with Usman having more than one wife provided he has children from each of them. 

A greater difficulty for Kim will be to steer clear of the position of being an impediment in the way of Usman’s successful music career in the United States. 

And besides, the notion that she was envious of his female followers was at the heart of the marital strife (and the subsequent divorce drama) that Usman and Lisa had throughout their marriage.

Hospice worker Lisa was 50 years old, and she had a daughter who was 15 years old. When Usman, who was 30 at the time, reached her over Facebook Messenger, she had been divorced for 4 years. 

After that, he demonstrated that he was genuine by video chatting with her. On the broadcast, she said that Nigerians are often regarded as being con artists, but that Usman seemed to be quite honest.

Throughout a month’s time, Lisa and Usman were engaging in “sensual” conversation via the internet. The engagement took place 9 months after it had begun, and 2 years after that, Lisa traveled to Nigeria to see the “famous” Usman. On Valentine’s Day, he composed a song, especially for his newborn daughter.

Nevertheless, once Lisa and Usman finally met, stuff did not proceed as well as had been anticipated since the American lady was constantly complaining about everything, from his job to his culture. 

In spite of objections from Usman’s relatives, the couple decided to tie the knot in the last episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days.

Lisa and Usman’s Relationship Was a Struggle from the Beginning

The news quickly spread among the audience that Lisa and Usman had parted ways in May of 2020 and had been emotionally distant for some months previous to their breakup. 

Lisa said that Sojaboy cheated on her and exploited her for the purpose of promoting his music by having her appear on a television program. 

She also stated that he was a liar. While this was going on, Usman said that the only reason he had consented to marry Lisa was that she had threatened to kill herself if they ever split up.

Throughout the Tell-All episode of the fourth season of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Sojaboy shared his revelation that Lisa had used racist insults against him. 

The web leak included material from the Tell-All documentary lasting perhaps about 10 or so hours. In the videos, Usman makes the allegation that his ex-wife uttered the racial slur one week before the taping of the reunion program. “Lisa, last week you called me ni**er which I know is totally inappropriate in America. You called me ni**er, I don’t even get angry about it because I am used to how you are behaving,” he said. 

And in the meantime, Lisa never said that she did not utter the slur in question, although she did apologize for doing so before Usman asserted that she had used the epithet on many occasions. 

The section was not included in the completed version of Tell-All that was shown on TLC.

But, by June of the following year, multiple sources indicated that the network had dismissed Lisa cos of her utilization of racial slurs and because of a strong response from the audience on social networking sites.

 Lisa’s termination was reportedly the result of both of these factors. It seems that Lisa’s participation in B90 Strikes Back was cut short. On the other hand, Lisa allegedly disputed that TLC was responsible for her firing.

Lisa’s 90-Day Engagement Has Been Terminated

The fact that Lisa is not included in the continuing plot of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days starring Usman and Kim tells a lot about the show. 

Her name has not been spoken at any point throughout the sections, and a clip from the past showing Usman and Lisa being married revealed just her hand.

So in the meantime, fans are relieved that Lisa has been removed from the series, but some of them are also perplexed as to why Angela Deem is still permitted to be a part of the brand and its many spinoffs. 

The aggressive behavior that Angela displayed toward Michael while she was on television prompted many viewers to join petitions calling for the show to be canceled.

In spite of the fact that Lisa has been openly criticizing Usman for leveraging 90 Day Fiancé as a medium to advertise his songs, the show has removed both Lisa’s face and her name from the program. 

Despite this, Lisa appears to be content with her new life as a married woman to a guy called Tracey Robinson, whereas Usman is actively pursuing a romantic relationship with Kim Menzies.